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Thursday, April 21, 2016

Disappointed

I am a mediator and a conflict coach.  I am intuitive when it comes to identifying and resolving conflict. I own my mistakes and misteps. I am tenacious and strive hard to achieve my goals.

I review and reconfigure. I seek and heed wise counsel; but ultimately make my own decisions.
I do, say and am all this...but yet I am still disappointed.

I am wounded. I am hurt. I am in my feelings to the degree that others notice and reach out to check on me.

I am told that I am good enough and it just wasn't my moment, my time.

My choice is to withdraw and hibernate.  My reaction is to redirect my energies and skills to a entity that I think would appreciate me.

In reality,  I sulk. I refer back to the conflict hook that gets me EVERYTIME.
☆☆☆Competence☆☆☆
When my work,my intelligence, my talent or my skills are not recognized. .I.am.wounded.

The book titled "Conflict Pivot" helped me to identify my hook.
I will take a much needed moment to reflect and determine how  I can mitigate the effect of how when my competence is questioned .

This is a journey folks in which I will continue to evolve and grow from.

Vick the Communication Diva
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