We all make mistakes in relationships. We don't listen and we talk too much.
We sulk and snear. We wait and act too fast.
Communicate is a word that is thrown around like it's easy. It's not. Communicating should be easy buts it's not.
Folks are talking and saying nothing. They have agendas. They want to appear powerful and exert power; yet they have none.
I reiterate timing as it's crucial. Folks got to be ready to receive your message and you got to formulate it in a manner that it can be received.
Six steps to communicating effectively.
1.Know what you want to accomplish with the conversation.
2. Start off with something nice or positive and it must be true...ijs
3. Don't get loud.
4. Allow the other party to respond without interruption.
5. Don't talk over the other party.
6. If it gets crazy stop it and revisit at a better time.
☆☆☆☆repeat and revisit☆☆☆☆
Practice makes perfect and don't give up if the relationship is important. If it isn't wish, them well and move on.
The Adventures of Vick the Communication Diva
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