Have you ever felt good for someone and felt sad for yourself at the same time. You are going through your Valley and people seem to be hitting the top of the mountain. You start to wonder what is wrong with me whatever and start to feel bad about yourself. You start to feel as if somebody is just ripping you off; that good things are not coming your way and you don't know why.
But I am NOT here to tell you that everything is going to be fine cuz sometimes you have those moments
Everybody acts like you're supposed to be strong all the time. Every body acts like having a pity party is a bad thing. It's not. Actually having a pity party is a good thing. It proves that you're strong enough to be weak. That you understand that you are human. You are made of flesh and bone. You are riddled with emotions that reach highs and lows. They are supposed to. There are times that you going to feel down but where it becomes a struggle is if you stay at a pity party too long. So go ahead wallow in your drama. Go ahead feel sorry for you, also go ahead and just say damn I wish I had gotten that new anything.
I used to tell my mom that it was alright to have a pity party you just can't stay too long.
However, if you find yourself feeling hopeless -call someone. If you Find yourself at the pity party too long seek help. Life is consistently filled with ups and downs. We just have to manage them the best that we can.
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