Things happen. We neglect...or better yet we CHOOSE not to tell. Why, because we fear the reaction. We naively think that if we wait.. the reaction will not be explosive. Naaa, waiting causes the issue to simmer. Causes the incident to fester like an infected sore.
Secrets...oh secrets...collusion...folks..plotting without inclusion. When, the leader is your confident..your heart..your heartbeat...the unveiling of the secret is worse than a old bandaid being ripped off.
Yet, you choose...the explosion that the conspirators expect is there.....yet..your heartbeat..the leader is contrite. Apologetic..shamed even that their choice caused such pain....wow...then...you choose to forgive or forget..or forgive and remember.
All this spiraled in my head...heart..and soul. This happened all while, I was reading the "Song of Solomon"..a book about family history and its constant never-ending impact like weave in a sweater. I reflect on family values and realize that they like kaleidoscopes. They shimmer..change..pounce and fade. In, the clutch people show you who they are. Choices are critical. You cant pick family, but you can choose and manage the interaction and impact.
A snake is a snake. A scorpion is a scorpion. A wolf is a wolf.
They all can be friendly...but you cannot suppress their true nature. Lies..Secrets..Regret..Fear....Courage ..forgiveness
Secrets and lies intertwine. What is done in the dark, will come out in the light...,,i promise you.
Be prepared
The Adventures of Vick the Communication Diva
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